How can i change included xml layout to another layout on java code?

I suggest ViewFlipper inside RelativeLayout of your include statements. Try like this:

<ViewFlipper xmlns:android="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res/android"    android:id="@+id/vf"    android:layout_width="fill_parent"    android:layout_height="wrap_content" >    <include android:id="@+id/include1" layout="@layout/ikinci" />    <include android:id="@+id/map" layout="@layout/third_layout" /></ViewFlipper>

Access ViewFlipper as below.Initially first layout is output:

ViewFlipper vf = (ViewFlipper)findViewById(R.id.vf);

For Button onClickListener:

button.setOnClickListener(new View.OnClickListener() {            @Override            public void onClick(View v) {                // TODO Auto-generated method stub                vf.setDisplayedChild(1);            }        });

There is two ways to change layouts in code:

A. Change visibility. Include tow different layouts in your xml:

<include     android:id="@+id/id1"    android:visibility="visible"/><include     android:id="@+id/id2"    android:visibility="gone"/>

and in code use this:

findViewById(R.id.id1).setVisibility(View.GONE);findViewById(R.id.id2).setVisibility(View.VISIBLE);

B. Manually add children. Use the same xml as you use now and add in code you can add or delete children:

yourRelativeLayout.removeAllViews();yourRelativeLayout.addView(viewToInclude);

Offtopic:

You don't need to write xmlns:android param in RelativeLayout. Just for the most top tag in layout file.

Have you tried to get the instance of the current view of the xml you have included the other xml and use findViewById(). View v is the first layout and against this view you use .findViewById()