Setting up a Ubuntu/Apache/PHP machine to send email
sudo apt-get install sendmail
will install a copy of sendmail that listens locally. If you install that, then php can use the built in mail()
function. There also won't be a risk of becoming a remote relay if you install like this as well.
If you plan on sending mail out to other internet domains, you will need to make sure the IP address of the machine sending mail has a reverse DNS entry (PTR record) set up as well. Most large ISP's will reject your mail if your IP does not have a PTR record or one that points to a generic host (e.g. 1.2.3.3.domain.isp.com). It should reverse to something like mail.yourdomain.com
The native mail function is a good built-in option.
The mail function is part of the PHP core, but it does require sendmail to be installed on the server.
I believe sendmail might already be installed with the packages you have already selected, but you can check for it using the command:
dpkg --get-selections | grep sendmail
If that comes up empty, you can install sendmail with:
sudo apt-get install sendmail