make drop down list item unselectable

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Mark Redman's answer is great if you can define the select list in the aspx page, however if you bind the drop down list dynamically obviously you cannot.

I had success using the following to achieve the result you are after (not sure on full browser support but works in newer versions of IE)

foreach ( ListItem item in dropdownlist.Items ){    if ( [item should be disabled condition] )    {        item.Attributes.Add( "disabled", "disabled" );    }}

This will render your disabled elements greyed out.

You can disable an <option> tag in an html <select>

See: http://www.htmlref.com/reference/appa/tag_option.htm

in asp.net:

<asp:DropDownList ID="MyDropDownList" runat="server">        <asp:ListItem Text="Standard Report" Value="SR"></asp:ListItem>        <asp:ListItem Text="Enterprise Report" Value="ER" disabled="disabled"></asp:ListItem>    </asp:DropDownList>

You can use a required field validator and set the initial value property to the value of the item in the drop down list you do not want selectable.

<asp:RequiredFieldValidator ID="RequiredFieldValidator" runat="server"                        ErrorMessage="" ControlToValidate="DropDown" InitialValue="Unselectable Item"></asp:RequiredFieldValidator>