Deploy DB+Proxy+SSL with kubernetes
I think you need to deploy two applications for your DB and Nginx, but for your certificates, we have different methods to have letsencrypt on kubernetes
for letsencrypt and nginx these two articles could help you to get some insights about what you need to do
Nginx & LetsEncrypt and this one Let’s Encrypt on Kubernetes
and for CouchDB this article may help you CouchDB on Kubernetes, in this article mentions NFS as storage but you can have your own