How to test which port MySQL is running on and whether it can be connected to?
To find a listener on a port, do this:
netstat -tln
You should see a line that looks like this if mysql is indeed listening on that port.
tcp 0 0 127.0.0.1:3306 0.0.0.0:* LISTEN
Port 3306 is MySql's default port.
To connect, you just have to use whatever client you require, such as the basic mysql client.
mysql -h localhost -u user database
Or a url that is interpreted by your library code.