Waiting on a condition (pthread_cond_wait) and a socket change (select) simultaneously

This is a fairly common problem.

One often used solution is to have pipes as a communication mechanism from worker threads back to the I/O thread. Having completed its task a worker thread writes the pointer to the result into the pipe. The I/O thread waits on the read end of the pipe along with other sockets and file descriptors and once the pipe is ready for read it wakes up, retrieves the pointer to the result and proceeds with pushing the result into the client connection in non-blocking mode.

Note, that since pipe reads and writes of less then or equal to PIPE_BUF are atomic, the pointers get written and read in one shot. One can even have multiple worker threads writing pointers into the same pipe because of the atomicity guarantee.

Unfortunately, the best way to do this is different for each platform. The canonical, portable way to do it is to have your I/O thread block in poll. If you need to get the I/O thread to leave poll, you send a single byte on a pipe that the thread is polling. That will cause the thread to exit from poll immediately.

On Linux, epoll is the best way. On BSD-derived operating systems (including OSX, I think), kqueue. On Solaris, it used to be /dev/poll and there's something else now whose name I forget.

You may just want to consider using a library like libevent or Boost.Asio. They give you the best I/O model on each platform they support.

Your second approach is the cleaner way to go. It's totally normal to have things like select or epoll include custom events in your list. This is what we do on my current project to handle such events. We also use timers (on Linux timerfd_create) for periodic events.

On Linux the eventfd lets you create such arbitrary user events for this purpose -- thus I'd say it is quite accepted practice. For POSIX only functions, well, hmm, perhaps one of the pipe commands or socketpair I've also seen.

Busy-polling is not a good option. First you'll be scanning memory which will be used by other threads, thus causing CPU memory contention. Secondly you'll always have to return to your select call which will create a huge number of system calls and context switches which will hurt overall system performance.