Converting INSERT commands to UPDATE
MySQL's REPLACE keyword does this. Simply replace the INSERT keyword in your queries with the word REPLACE and it should update the rows instead of inserting new ones. Please note that it will only work if you're inserting a primary key or unique key column.
You would have to rewrite them to updates by hand. If I encouter such a problem, I query for the count of certain primary key first, if none is found I insert a generic dataset and update it afterwards. By this, new data can be added and already existing data will be updated, and you don't have to differentiate between inserting new data and updating data.
For MySQL, you can use either the INSERT IGNORE or the INSERT ... ON DUPLICATE UPDATE syntaxes. See the MySQL reference manual