SQL Server IN vs. EXISTS Performance

EXISTS will be faster because once the engine has found a hit, it will quit looking as the condition has proved true.

With IN, it will collect all the results from the sub-query before further processing.

The accepted answer is shortsighted and the question a bit loose in that:

1) Neither explicitly mention whether a covering index is present in the left, right, or both sides.

2) Neither takes into account the size of input left side set and input right side set.
(The question just mentions an overall large result set).

I believe the optimizer is smart enough to convert between "in" vs "exists" when there is a significant cost difference due to (1) and (2), otherwise it may just be used as a hint (e.g. exists to encourage use of an a seekable index on the right side).

Both forms can be converted to join forms internally, have the join order reversed, and run as loop, hash or merge--based on the estimated row counts (left and right) and index existence in left, right, or both sides.

I've done some testing on SQL Server 2005 and 2008, and on both the EXISTS and the IN come back with the exact same actual execution plan, as other have stated. The Optimizer is optimal. :)

Something to be aware of though, EXISTS, IN, and JOIN can sometimes return different results if you don't phrase your query just right: http://weblogs.sqlteam.com/mladenp/archive/2007/05/18/60210.aspx