Cannot connect to RDS SQL Server Database using Management Studio
In my case I opened the VPC Security group associated with my database
In the EC2 Security groups dashboard I selected Edit Inbound Rules from the actions dropdown and chose edit inbound rules.
At first, I looked at the inbound rules and thought everything was OK since this was the current setup
After all - if it was allowing all traffic, then what could possibly be wrong?
On a whim I added a rule for TCP port 1433. Ending up with this simple setup
Then it immediately started working for me.
In my experience this was counter-intuitive. With the options I selected, all ports and IPs seemed to be open, but after editing the inbound and outbound rules in the security group to have MS SQL for anywhere, I was able to connect.