How to apply a style to a DependencyObject in a custom control library

Think like this: The TreeGridViewColumn should be a dummy object holding important information for the column itself such as width and height and also for each cell under that columns header for example the cell template itself. Therefore do not try to create an FrameworkElement out of TreeGridViewColumn. Here is an example how you might end up using the TreeGridViewColumn.

        <TreeGridViewColumn Header="First Col" Width="50">            <TreeGridViewColumn.CellTemplate>                <DataTemplate>                    <Button>                        click me                    </Button>                </DataTemplate>            </TreeGridViewColumn.CellTemplate>        </TreeGridViewColumn>

Once you ready to display the columns and cells I suggest to you to write your own custom panel which deals with the FrameworkElements by calling their Measure and Arrange methods allowing you to position columns and cells the way you want. You will end up doing alot of math inside your custom panel class. That futhermore means you will end up spending a month on programming that TreeGridView. I suggest you to take a shortcut and download the code of such a thing. There are already few TreeListViews online. Just take their dlls and see if it will work out for you

EDIT:

Ok here is a suggestion how you could solve your issue. Its just a suggestion

The DefaultTextColumnData class is a dummy object holding all the necessary infos like columns width, etc.

DataGridCellControl will be that FrameworkElement that draws the cell. Its a FrameworkElement so it will have a defined style in your generic.xaml resource dictionary.

To sum up DefaultTextColumnData will hold all infos for the column itself. DataGridCellControl will be a control which might end up having 20 instances of itself in case you have 20 cells in that column.

DataGridCellControl must know about its column.This is how the code of DataGridCellControl will look alike:

class DefaultTextColumnData : DataGridColumn{}class ComplexColumnData : DataGridColumn{}class DataGridCellControl : Control{  public DataGridColumn Column  {    get; set;  }  public DataTemplate DefaultTextCellTemplate  {    get; set;  }  public override Size MeasureOverride(Size size)  {   ...   if(this.Column is DefaultTextColumnData)   {    this.Template = this.DefaultTextCellTemplate   }   if(this.Column is ComplexColumnData)   {    this.Template = ...   }   ...   return new Size(30, 30);  }}

DefaultTextCellTemplate will be set in your generic.xaml like this:

<Style TargetType={x:Type DataGridCellControl}> <Setter Property="DefaultTextCellTemplate">  <Setter.Value>   <DataTemplate>    <TextBlock Background="Black" Margin="5"/>     ....

Thats how you set default cell template in your resource dictionary.